Fostering Healthy

Connections

We envision a world in which the dominant value of hyper-individualism—leading to fear and isolation—is replaced by the widespread recognition that true progress lies in the power of our connections to one another and our environment.

Relational Cultural Theory

RCT extends far beyond personal relationships to consider the structures and systems that shape our wider society. Over the years, RCT has come to influence scholarship and practice in psychology, psychiatry, counseling, education, the arts, organizational development, community development, faith and spirituality, and the environment.  Our hope is that RCT will help shift the dominant paradigm from “me” to “we,” thereby creating a more just and hopeful world.

We need connection just as we need air and water. Our bodies are designed to manage stress by turning to trusted others when we are anxious or scared. The reduction in stress that comes from a healthy relationship and a sense of belonging is powerful, and it is clear that growth-fostering relationships provide the resilience that enables us to persevere even in the most difficult times. 

What does a growth-fostering relationship look like? For us, it comes down to a set of felt conditions that we call “The Five Good Things.” 

The Five Good Things

Zest

Zest in emotional connection translates into a feeling of aliveness. This interplay is brimming with a sense of vitality and energy.

PRODUCTIVITY

Empowered action translates into each person feeling more motivated and more able to take action in relationship beyond the dyad.

CLARITY

Each person develops a clearer understanding of the other—and of the self. The relationship is more whole, more nuanced, more layered — and therefore, more accurate.

INCREASED SENSE OF WORTH

The relationship enables each person to feel a greater sense of worth. We thrive when others recognize our existence — not in the abstract, but in the very moments we are face to face.

desire for connection

Each person feels more connected to the other and feels a greater motivation to connect with others in general.

Upcoming Events

May 11, 2021

Lipscomb University Spring Faculty Development Keynote on Relational Teaching

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May 28 @ 8:00am - 5:00pm EDT

ICGC Colloquium

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November 12 - 13, 2021

The Renfrew Center for Eating Disorders Annual Conference Keynote lecture with Amy Banks, MD. and Maureen Walker

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Learn With Us

Books

Works from leaders in the field about growth in connection in a variety of settings.

Bibliography

Relational-Cultural Theory has spawned a large and interdisciplinary body of scholarship.

Works In Progress

A publication series developed by the two organizations that were the precursors to ICGC: the Stone Center and the Jean Baker Miller Training Institute.

Language of RCT

Defining the most common terms used in describing relational cultural theory.

 

Exploring Relational Cultural Theory

News

Amy Banks’ Next Book Available for Pre-Order

Amy Banks’ Next Book Available for Pre-Order

RCT scholar Amy Banks, along with Isaac Knapper have completed an important new book “Fighting Time”, scheduled for release on November 5. The book tells the story of Knapper’s wrongful conviction in the death of Dr. Ronald Banks, Amy’s father. From the publisher’s...

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Join the ICGC Education Affinity Group

Join the ICGC Education Affinity Group

The ICGC Relational Practice Education Affinity Group has launched! We met via zoom in early March -- RCT practitioners and graduate students from K12, homeschooling, higher ed, government, adult learning, human resources, and other disciplines. Moving forward we plan...

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"To embrace the power of relationships will revolutionize society as well as psychology."

Jean Baker Miller, MD

"The need for connection and community and the desire to be a part of meaningful and responsive relationships is at the heart of human experience."

Judith V. Jordan, PhD

“Growth is one of the - perhaps the - most important, most exciting qualities of being human.”

Jean Baker Miller, MD

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